“A career is wonderful, but you can’t curl up with it on a cold night.”

At first, most things around us provide a glimpse of what love and wealth really are. But it might be a step back for equality for women, but when you consider that both genders can use it as advice it seems more sound. While chasing a career and money many men also give up relationships because they see the two as mutually exclusive. Only later when they realize the emptiness of having success and no one to share it with do they regret their decision to pursue the almighty dollar at all costs. some time we get tired of the dollars we spent our entire life searching for, and when the right man come, you then come up saying he is not your class, what concern  class and your love life? all you ever wanted is already made man full with abundance of wealth and that same man you are eying at is also looking for a class.

 we are all of us stars, and we deserve to twinkle.

The touching side of this story is that when trying to spend much of your adult life as a star in the form of a celebrity, try as well to mingle with the less privilege because white pap we knew today comes from black pot.  We all deserve to have our time to shine, and it’s a matter of taking the opportunities that are granted to us to show what we can do. It speaks to the imbalance of attention given to only the best and brightest among us, even though we all have something to say, a talent to behold, and a spotlight that we deserve.

In the life of Monroe she said, viewing herself as a just an ordinary girl was what helped her out; Perhaps it was her way of digesting all of the fame and attention, and a way for her to make sense of it all and stay true to herself. Being the adoration of many men during her time and even having the sort of relationship she had with the president of the United States, she was anything but a small girl. But at the root of it all she held the belief that she just wanted to find love, and that’s what she set out to do, as is evidenced by the life she lived. you over there, what do you set out to do? looking from her perspective, she set out a goal of which it was accomplished. aside her privilege, she still remained an ordinary girl as she implied. one thing that impressed me about her is that she sees her self as just an ordinary as other being. am appealing to the class ladies that they should all see themselves as just as "Monroe" no matter what privilege you were opportune to, desire to change people and from changing people some times, it turns out to be the member of your family, or some time the father of your children. Try to bring dawn your eagle, put away pride, what does he has to offer me, don't say! Look for someone that has a dream if he has zero means to actualize it dream then help him actualize it, make him a better person you are looking for not already made man.

 Find a balance between your career and your love life so that you don’t end up old, bitter, and alone, is what she seems to be saying. Bless you all and may the soul of Monroe rest in perfect peace.

Relationship Advice:

Always tackle difficult issues in your relationship or marriage with maturity.
      In our society today, it has been obvious that youths of our age don't know how to manage relationship or marriage and is the most reason some don't want to get marry. As a young man bitterly said, know relationship or marriage would ever be like the days of our parents.
    At first, relationship is the coming together of man and a woman for the sole purpose of having a nice time or a happy home. After long dating you still can't manage your differences before it due, you get married afterward  then what happen after marriage it be came a different route entirely that know one seems to have a valid explanation for the catastrophic. Everyone wishes to have a family with a happier home; but how can we achieve this purpose, is it  by fighting,quarreling or by using abusive words. Absolutely I say no! but to Achieve this you must be tolerance, understanding and maturity minded.
 Marriage or relationship is not a competitive home whereby both party decide who take the most responsibilities. In Africa, we believe that it is the responsibility  of the man to cater for his family and that is why we left every responsibility to him.Its absolutely wrong thinking that way, is a sole responsibilities for both parties as a husband and wife  and in a state where there is a linkage is also the duty of the wife to fill that gap. by the time you started chairing the house duty and he or she cannot  be able to meet this demand as expected, then it started giving birth to issues and when these issues are miss manage, then it escalate afterward, it then give birth to a broken home. One of the question I expect couples to ask themselves is how do you see your wife and how did your husband sees you? if your view is seeing  her as a street woman or a street man then there wouldn't be agreement between you guys but if as at your viewing you sees each other as husband and wife then I assure you that understanding will definitely come.
    Tolerance, everyone messes up in relationships or and has peaks and valleys in their personal lives. When I realized it wasn't the end of the world and I would keep on standing, I knew it was going to be OK. Tolerate, endure for no relationship is perfect. I believe relationship to be an institution of learning and that is the most reason you learning. You get angry when she uses abusive words on you then it will seems to you as someone has putting the ruff on fire; not so, swallow it and later call her to order she will listen to you. In marriages, always avoid using abusive words. There was this lucky day I was with my friend and he had a slit issue with his wife, there where both exchanging words and the only point i could pick at out of the mess was that I heard my friend telling his wife that if this repeat itself again that she will pack out of his house and the wife replied him that we have been hearing that, that moment I feel sorry for him because he has no idea what that word means. the word means, at that moment you mention that she will leave your house, in spiritual seeing that was the moment you divorce her even if the case is settle she still have that believe of you said, she will pack out of your house. The only tolerance in the world the only tolerance that earns the name, is that toward tolerances.
     Communication, how often do you communicate, do you create time for that? create time for communication which I see as a key to every relationship. talks even if you are not in the mood, jokes these are what brings happiness to most home. if you and your partner always quarreling, fighting. it means that you are not listening to each other and therefore you are not hearing each other. when you don't feel heard,you shout louder, which only create more anger and more tension, less listening and the fighting escalate. what you need at this state is speak out, communicate what upsetting you in way that is easy for each other to hear. try to sit like adults and air and discus your issues with other. you must approach the issue with high level of maturity. there must be no screaming, yelling and shouting etc.  Remember people are out there watching you,want to hear ugly issue from your home, want to see how you guys are not getting along but is better you handle your issue than taken it outside the marital covenant. Don't expect me to tells you that you are right or she is wrong or expecting anyone to say she is right and you are wrong. no one is going to pay you or compensate you. you should have the believe that the only constant things in life is change, when change then you also need to change and always tackle issues before it due.
May God bless every relationship and marriages.    (((((((((((Amen))))))))).